Robert Murray
murrayforcongress.com/
Simple and honest: I wanted to marry my girlfriend and the judicial system won't allow me to do so legally.
The reason why is less simple and more strange, but I'll answer it because I was asked. If you're focused on Virginia Ag, you might skip this personal story that summarizes 3,000+ pages of litigation and a half-dozen top attorneys' advice.
In early 2022, a court lost all copies of my girlfriend's divorce paperwork, divorced her under the wrong paperwork, and when everyone realized the court's error and the court admitted it, all agreed to create new divorce paperwork and hold a new, proper hearing. No harm, no foul. However, her husband (Adam) changed his mind. He grabbed her last living child, kept all their money, and would not cooperate with either her or the court, eventually even ransoming the child for divorce settlement concessions. Bad.
In early 2023, frustrated by the spiraling problems for which the State and County shared responsibility with Adam, a Wisconsin circuit court judge (Bryan D. Keberlein, WISBAR #1061372), decided to falsify divorce paperwork to fix" (conceal) his court's error and liability, among other likely reasons. Bryan claimed that everyone had agreed to it the prior year, and that the divorce was approved by a court officer who had retired seven months earlier. That's fraud — judicial no less.
With my help, my girlfriend appealed the court's decision. Shockingly, the appellate court (Maria S. Lazar (#1017150), Shelly A. Grogan (#1018076), and Lisa S. Neubauer (#1011685) affirmed Bryan's decision, literally rewriting the case to justify doing so. So in 2024, she petitioned the State Supreme Court (declined to hear) and in 2025, the U.S. Supreme Court (declined to hear). So she is stuck, illegally divorced, thus still married, without access to her assets (though her child was eventually returned — a tear-jerking moment), and unable to marry me (or anyone else). If we tried, it would be fraud and we would each face 9 months in jail and $10,000 in fines. So, in 2026, she is now suing the judge and many others in Federal Civil Court for various torts (e.g. deprivation of civil rights, conspiracy) and she is pursuing parallel criminal prosecution. Neither she, nor I, back down from wrongdoing and corruption, even though doing so would have saved at least a million dollars in direct and opportunity costs. Why did we bother and persist?
All it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing. We did a lot and we're hardly done.
Eventually, her case ceased becoming about her and a few court clowns. Throughout this 4+ year process, she and I have learned a great deal about the problems of family law, State courts, and most relevantly, the Federal mis-incentives that are driving bad behavior in State and Federal courts. Judicial reform is needed as much as any other reform in the U.S. because if we don't have an honest judicial system, we will lose our Republic. And I will transform Family Law (hence my nickname ""Family Man"" in some circles). Congress is the best means for fixing both.
A year ago, we offered every Democrat in Congress the chance to help fix this for all Americans. The Virginia 4th District incumbent, Jenn McClellan, ignored our offer (no response), as did every other Democrat in Congress (so much for civil rights!). Rep. McClellan not only lost a great opportunity to protect every American's rights (instead focusing her support on the narrow LGBTQ+ community), but she picked up a competitor.
That's why I am running for U.S. Congress: to do what Jenn McClellan (nor any other Democrat) wanted to do for America.
Stepping back, I view Congress as an act of public service, not as a career. I want to help how I can and then pass the job on to the next person with a passion to improve our country.
I've worked in 15 countries and helped organizations in most industries to use technology effectively and responsibly. This included local, state, federal (civilian and defense), and international government entities. I will also protect people from the improper and invasive use of technology, including the misuse of surveillance technologies and dropping datacenters where they are not wanted.
I don't know everything, so I look forward to learning from you, my Virginia neighbors, as well as all Americans. I commit to only serving your interests. I can help our country and ask for the opportunity to serve you.
Then I hope to marry my girlfriend and become an official Bonus Dad for her son. Then maybe we'll start a small regenerative farm and live in peace.